I got to know Rakeb as a friend in Ethiopia. I did what I could to inspire her, provide some fun experiences, and help her gain confidence, but ultimately we were friends.
One of the biggest challenges for us since she arrived in Denver has been figuring out how to add in the element of guardianship to our relationship. Instead of relying on Rakeb's parents to set boundaries, Amanda and I have had to take on that responsibility. Sometimes it goes well, sometimes it doesn't.
It has been a surreal experience to be learning how to parent a toddler and a teenager at the same time. I have grown to a point where I am able to view challenging times in a positive light, and I sense that I am learning valuable life lessons. Hopefully I understand more fully what they are at some point.
One of the biggest challenges for us since she arrived in Denver has been figuring out how to add in the element of guardianship to our relationship. Instead of relying on Rakeb's parents to set boundaries, Amanda and I have had to take on that responsibility. Sometimes it goes well, sometimes it doesn't.
It has been a surreal experience to be learning how to parent a toddler and a teenager at the same time. I have grown to a point where I am able to view challenging times in a positive light, and I sense that I am learning valuable life lessons. Hopefully I understand more fully what they are at some point.
Saturday Breakfast aka time to reconnect as friends
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